tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7967905436276195721.post5868939461707211441..comments2023-08-04T04:07:47.900-06:00Comments on Scribbling in the Margin: I am one bad mutha...shutyo'mouthThe Babehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05775288796831928141noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7967905436276195721.post-29639229493783994692010-05-04T21:13:43.522-06:002010-05-04T21:13:43.522-06:00You two are awesome personified! Thanks for the r...You two are awesome personified! Thanks for the reassurance.The Babehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05775288796831928141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7967905436276195721.post-51717216222381151462010-05-04T11:11:18.923-06:002010-05-04T11:11:18.923-06:00I get it. I do.
When I broke up with the person ...I get it. I do.<br /><br />When I broke up with the person we both know, I felt like I didn't stand up for myself ENOUGH. It's like I woke up and was all "Oh. I don't want to be like this anymore. Maybe I do matter...and even if I don't believe this, maybe I should start standing up for myself."<br /><br />And THAT is when the pendulum swung the other way. So instead of being a doormat, I opted to be this PERSON who was frustrated, angry, and full of emotion that I had surpressed for far too long.<br /><br />Personally, I don't think you're being bitchy - I think you're being authentic.<br /><br />AND I think that it's years of Sunday School and preaching that got you to think that standing up for yourself was not desirable. It is. <br /><br />Whatever your "normal" is, you'll come back to it. But get out this frustration while you can.<br /><br />It's healthy, IMHO. :)<br /><br />((hugs))Happy Fun Pantshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16764438670187538319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7967905436276195721.post-46499119477277785472010-05-03T23:13:08.565-06:002010-05-03T23:13:08.565-06:00WELL, I would say the one to the innocent bystande...WELL, I would say the one to the innocent bystander would be rude, BUT you kept that part in your own head so it's totally exceptable! LOL.<br /><br />All in all I'd vote for "Keepin' it Real." <br /><br />Oh, and I can relate to the sarcasm, it is a condition and we that have it can't help it!TinaMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07887169551220353462noreply@blogger.com